Jealousy

"Jealousy is simply and clearly the fear that you do not have value. Jealousy scans for evidence to prove the point - that others will be preferred and rewarded more than you. There is only one alternative - self-value. If you cannot love yourself, you will not believe that you are loved. You will always think it's a mistake or luck. Take your eyes off others and turn the scanner within. Find the seeds of your jealousy, clear the old voices and experiences. Put all the energy into building your personal and emotional security. Then you will be the one others envy, and you can remember the pain and reach out to them." ~Jennifer James

Ok, why the fuck am I talking about jealousy? Because you guys are assholes and experts at it! Seriously, I try to defend you at every single turn where girls might get depressed and hate guys, but you keep pushing the shit envelope. I am no expert on life and I was a jealous asshole myself but hey, I grew the fuck out of it and now I am here to tell you why the fuck is this so goddamn simple.

When you become jealous you start doing shit that you wouldn't normally do like getting mad at guys who look at your girlfriend. Hey you dick, I have a girlfriend and if I do that then she'll leave me, which is what you are fearing. In short, you become jealous you become scared and no girl will accept that one, not even your mom.

Guys give compliments to my girlfriend but does that make me mad? fuck no, unless they try to force themselves into her, in which case I will jump and knock some teeth out. You guys are just insecure fucking pricks who act sweet and all. Yeah, you are sweet, don't get me wrong, the shit starts when you become afraid of losing someone then you start being a manipulative asshole!

To put it mildly, when you start choosing friends, violate privacy, and start acting like a pussy then you know you are jealous and you have my most sincere loathing. You and your fucking friends should start looking for a fucking job because hey fag, no girl will like you that way. Also, you need to get a life, I mean shit, nobody likes a pussy as a boyfriend.

Yeah, I am good, I am non-jealous and I have your same fucking culture. How do you explain that assholes? And no, the saying that "girls like jealous boys" is bullshit. Every single thing to make an excuse of your insecurity and distrust into someone is void because I know them all.

Jealousy is not only being insecure, is a sign of distrust. No, she will not leave you, that's why she chose you, you god damn fucking prick, but she will eventually if you continue being a prick. So what if she has male friends, or female friends, or [insert sexual inclination or fetish] friends? none of your god damn business! You trust her, she will keep her word intact, that's just how it is you morons.

And it all comes down to trust. You either trust her or you don't. You can't say "I trust her" and be a jealous asshole. Hey you dick, that's called being a fucking hypocrite. You might say "but love and jealousy is complex" no they are not. Love is when you become attached to someone you know for a long time and you start to become a real fucking man. Jealousy, on the contrary, is a reflection of your god damn insecurities and you'll just lose every single time you try to take on a real man on a conversation, lose your girlfriend to that guy and perhaps be as lonely as you were before but now you might want to do shit like stalk your ex or some other kind of stupid bullshit maneuver which ultimately ends in prison, a kick in the ass, or both.

In conclusion, you want to be a jealous asshole? Yeah, maybe a stupid fucking woman will catch up with you and then you can manipulate her, otherwise no other woman will put up with your bullshit. Because right now I can tell you, real women hate privacy violating, manipulative, insecure little shits like you.

"Love may exist without jealousy, although this is rare; but jealousy may exist without love, and this is common" - Anonymous